You may have a feeling your spouse is cheating, but you are not sure. If you have never had to go through a relationship where the other party cheats, you may not know what to look for. Discover the undeniable signs that your spouse is cheating.
There are the obvious signs such as catching your spouse in bed with someone else or catching your spouse kissing or making out with someone else. These signs are obvious, but what happens if you suspect something is going on but you really do not have any proof. Here are 5 signs that prove something is going on.
1. Your spouse gets nervous when you pick up his/her cell phone. He/she might be afraid that you will look at the incoming or outgoing call log. There might be a number there that your spouse does not want you to see. If you can get your spouse's cell phone when he/she is asleep, look at the call logs. If you notice a number that has been called several times that you do not recognize, write it down and then Google it to see who it belongs to.
2. Your spouse gets very upset if you answer his/her cell phone. He/she might be afraid their lover is calling and might say something like "hello baby" or "hello honey, I can meet you at 9:00P" before he/she can stop the conversation. Remember the person on the other end only knows that they are calling your spouse's phone and does not know you are on the other end. With that in mind, be prepared for what you might hear and keep your cool.
3. Your spouse will not let you see his/her credit card or bank statements. There may be hotel, restaurant or expensive gift store charges on it that he/she does not want you to see. Your spouse may even have secret accounts set up that you do not know about.
4. Your spouse will not let you see his/her detailed cell phone bill. Some carriers do not send out detailed bills anymore unless you call and ask for a detailed copy to be sent to you. You may be able to get a detailed statement online to print out.
5. Your spouse will not let you look at his/her email account or computer. He/she may be conversing with a long distance lover or may be sending juicy emails or IM messages. Your spouse may have a secret email set up also. There are services available on the Internet that can find all of the email accounts a person has opened. Some of these type services are free and some come with a one time or monthly charge.